Understanding Life..

Only way to understand life is to "Work Hard", which will keep you away from understanding it.

Art of dis-identifying

 Do not allow bad moods to dominate you. When bad moods occur, be a witness. Do not identify with them. See them like passing clouds. You are like space & thoughts are like clouds. Just learn the art of dis-identifying from your thoughts.

The art of dis-identifying is an important spiritual discipline.

Make it daily practice.
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These lines are from my Bapa(my father)

Thought!!!!

Fear About Failure is an excuse to yourself, so don't hesitate to try!!

Depression

In this busy world, we almost are going through some kind of situation, which make us regretting why this is happening, why i am in this world, causing depression. Some are unhappy because of work load, some are for money, some are for social life, and some are unhappy comparing them self with others.
Every body have some problems in life, No one's life run smoothly as it seems to be. But the fact is- problems are not immortal , it is not going to continue life long. So why to sad, why not think positive, the day will come, this problems will get vanish.

Great Indian Leader "Subhash Chandra Bose" said : If there no struggle in life, there is no excitement in life.

But now we became depressed when a small problems  comes to our life. Have u ever think, we should have thank full to GOD because we have food to eat, bed to sleep, some people don't have this only.

Is our problem is bigger than them? I hope your answer will be no. Then why to worried, why not face the problem. Just enjoy what you get. If we get depressed all the time, it not only affect you, will also affect the people around you. You are destroying your own social life.

So, You have to smile, how hard situation may be, the more you smile , the less problem seems to be you have. Unless you don't want to be happy, then no one can make you Happy. Share your problem with others, Do pray to GOD, it will help you to relax body and mind.  So be Happy, enjoy every moment , every situation of life.

Keep Smiling, Because It Cost Nothing :)

My Parents

I don't know where to start, how to start, my parents(my father(Bapa) and my mother(Bou))are my GOD ,my teacher,my guide, and everything for me, which  I could not describe, how much  they value for me, No I can't, may be it will be my mistake.

When ever I got some trouble, before thinking of GOD, one thing come to mind, my mother prays for me, I no need to worry, nothing will happen. Yes, I am true, I saw so many storms passes away from my life, because of her prayers.

When my father scolds at me, i might got angry many times, but i regretted all the times, at the very moment. I remember from the day i threw the photo of GOD in child hood(even i have not started schooling those days) my father throw me away, the day I urged for the badminton racket they brought me , even it was a month end budget, the night we are scolded for study and brought me new rubber and pencils. I remember all the days with you. I might hurt you telling hard words sometimes in reply, I know it was natural as me, and you forgave me.
Yes I cried so many nights looking at moon, thinking that you also looking at moon same time and thinking of me, because each time I look at moon, it reminds me evening study class by you on open sky under that moon, with those beautiful lantern at summer days.

But most thing that hurting now a days, that I am staying away from you, it hurts more when it reminds me you never dreamed of these day while teaching me and making me from a child to young. I am sorry.. that I am selfish now a days, I am staying away from you to make my career at this old age of yours, but each day, I do something keeping you mind that,the day will come I will make you feel proud.

I always thinks I could write a Poem for you, but as I am not a good writer as my mother, I can't write anything.So sorry.Hope I could write one in future. :)

This is not the small words for you, where my thoughts for you end, I could not find any words to describe you both.  Keep Your blessing on me,. Finally two words "sorry" and "thanks" :p

  

Hurt !!

Hurt !!! the word itself is very poor. Knowingly or unknowingly we some how hurt others. Yes we DO !! Though we never want to do the same, Even i never want to hurt any body through out my life, but i know, i had hurt so many person in my life. I analysed that word so many times, but the mistake happened again and again and i had no control over it. May be i can never have full control over it.

But while digging on a topic i realize one thing, in order to ignore this word hurt(i mean not to hurt others), You(its actually me) have to say truth all time, on which i had failed.

Yes, this is my personal experience i am talking about, when we lie on anything , we have to keep lieing in order to save the first lie, so for the moment we can make others happy by saying lie, but at final when truth comes out ..the person will badly hurt. So best way is just say the truth, even how difficult, how painful, the situation is,you will be relax as time passes..

#Don't Get Hurt By others too:
Lord Gautam Buddha :"Never expect, Expectation leads to sorrow" so for the topic today.the best way not to hurt yourself  by others is never expect.

Ask yourself first...

I met so many people in my life who hates the father of nation " Mahatma Gandhi ". I never know why... and i don't want(why??? i will answer it) to dig up the reason behind it.

The day i started learning in school, i have been told that Gandhi Ji is the father of nation. yes. why?? he gave us a reason, he taught us the piece and  sacrifice, he stood for a cause, he stood for us , he leads us, he gave every thing for us, after knowing this i start believing him. I believe what my book, what my parents and what my teachers taught me. I believe them, i don't think they had not told anything wrong about any person. :)

But when i grew up i met so many friends, who fingers at Gandhi Ji  all the time when i started conversession about him. they told me such bla bla...things about Gandhi...yes that may be true(i don't believe)..

I just answered them,

•  You might be right, but why u are seeing the negative things of a person, God has given you two eyes, go for the good one.
•  Have your parents, teacher and book taught this when you are a child, why they didn't :)
• you might not believe him, but can you make yourself stand like him, being such ideal person, while doing the same thing that you told me about Gandhi Ji :)
• Ask Yourself first, then point to others... this is not my anger..this is my perception..the way i look at the world :)

Date : 12-06-2013 , 6:27 PM